Thursday, June 30, 2016

Kauai Wedding Minister suggests Hanalei Bay Beach - Decisions for your Wedding Ceremony

Iconic Hanalei Bay is one of the most beautiful spots in the world.   But which spot to choose for your wedding?



The crescent bay is quite long and there are several spots to choose from for your wedding or vow renewal ceremony.  You may wish to go to the bay a day or so before and see what location appeals to you the most.  

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Some suggestions would be to meet at the base of the Pier (the north end of Weke Road) and then go to the left; or meet in front of the Pavilion (on Weke Road just to the north of Aku Road) and then go to the left to move away from the sun-bathers.  At either spot, you
will have a great view of Mt Makana (Bali Hai) and the Hanalei Mountains, or…

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Meet at Waioli Beach Park, Pine Trees parking lot (off Weke road at the end of Hee Road) and go to the right and head towards a large shade tree right next to the sand, or…

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Meet at Grandpa's (off Weke road at the end of Anae) and go to the left towards the river mouth.  That may sound very confusing, but will make sense to you once you arrive.

Whatever location you choose, you will be thrilled to be married on Hanalei Bay!

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Sorry... not a wedding photo... my chow chow going for a swim

Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Kauai Wedding Officiant - Testimonial from a happy couple

One of my greatest joys is receiving a handwritten "thank you" note from a couple whose wedding I performed.  While I will be posting many of these handwritten notes in the "Testimonials" section of my website, I wanted to post this one in the blog.

Although handwritten thank you notes may be becoming a thing of the past, please think about taking the time to write a short note to those you love, or to those who helped create a memorable moment for you.

Your thoughtfulness will be remembered forever!

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Sunday, June 26, 2016

Hawaii and Kauai Marriage License



Getting married on Kauai?  You first need to get your marriage license application started on-line. Then make an appointment with one of the Kauai Marriage License agents to finalize your paperwork.

Finally, remember to bring your license to your wedding so that I can finalize it and make your marriage official!
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KAUAI MARRIAGE LICENSE AGENTS:
Kapaa/Wailua District:  Walter (Kamika) Smith III: 808-821-6887 and Darlene Kapana: 808-821-6882

Lihue District:  Jacqueline Garces 808-246-5025

Governor's Liaison Office: Carrice Gardner 808 274 3100 

Hanalei/Princeville District: Dayna Santos and Jamie Listman of Styles Salon – 808-378-4290 

Koloa District:   Ellen O'Connell, of The Wine Shop – 10am-7pm  808-742-7305

Kauai Sand Ceremony by Larry LaSota, Kauai Wedding Officiant

Because of Kauai's near-constant tradewinds, having the traditional candle lighting ceremony, symbolizing the joining of two families, is not very practical.  So instead, you might consider the Sand Ceremony.

All of my ceremonies offer this option, and I explain the details during the ceremony, and guide you through it.  This is also a wonderful way to include children or other family members during your ceremony.

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I provide the sand and the koa bowls that you will be pouring from and the container that you are pouring into.  I usually give the couples the sand after the ceremony in a plastic bag to make it easier for travel and they buy a container when they get home. 

If you want to bring a container for the ceremony, that's fine. It should be about 16oz. and have a 3 inch or wider mouth for easy pouring during the ceremony.
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The Meaning of Shaka (Hang Loose) - Larry LaSota, Kauai Wedding Officiant



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 The Meaning of the Shaka ("hang loose")


In Hawai‘i, the most popular nonverbal gesture is the “Shaka”, which involves making a fist, extending your thumb and pinky finger and waving your hand from side to side. Often identified with early surf culture, the shaka symbol’s popularity grew in the late 1960s and became as iconic to Hawai‘i as surfing in Waikiki, Duke Kahanamoku, and hula dancers in grass skirts. The shaka is sometimes referred to as a way to symbol to others to hang loose or relax.
 
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However, the shaka symbol is much more meaningful than just a wave of hello and goodbye. The shaka is a symbol of the Aloha Spirit, which is known as the widespread friendly attitude of friendship, understanding, compassion and solidarity of Hawaiian people and Kama‘āina (locals). To show the shaka symbol to someone, you are expressing gratitude, saying thank you, or even saying “howzit” (hello).

The origin of the shaka is one that has long been debated. The most credible story is of a local Hawaiian hero named Hamana Kalili from La‘ie, Oahu, who lost three fingers on his right hand in a sugar mill accident at the old Kahuku Sugar Mill. After Kalili lost his fingers, he no longer could work in the sugar mill and became a security guard on the train that traveled between Sunset Beach and Kaaawa. One of Kalili’s jobs was to keep children from jumping on the train and riding from town to town. To get around Kalili, the children began signaling each other that the coast was clear, by waving their hands in the same two finger out gesture that Kalili would wave.

Kalili’s wave became well known through his community involvement for the Mormon Church in Lā‘ie. He was the “moi (king) of the festivities” at an annual hukilau, a large community event that involved the gathering of fish, a luau, and hula show. His signature shaka was photographed in all the historic photos of this grand event.

The term “shaka” however, was not coined until the 1960s, when local TV and movie host Lippy Espinda signed off at the end of a used car advertisement by flashing the hand gesture and said “shaka braddah.”

Since then, the shaka has since become a symbol of greeting, to show aloha, to say thank you, or to express that something is alright. It’s a reminder of the easygoing, relaxed lifestyle in Hawai‘i and the welcoming attitudes of the local people.

Don’t be afraid to throw a shaka or two while out in the community. If all goes well, you will get one back!

Friday, June 24, 2016

Kauai Wedding Officiant - Your Wedding Ceremony is about YOU

Your wedding is, and should be, about you, and no one else.  Not about the photographer or the minister or the musician or the coordinator or the florist.  You have spent weeks, months or even years building up to this moment... your wedding day.

It is my job and my mission to help you experience your wedding ceremony with open eyes and a laughing smile.  Remember this moment.  It will warm your heart for the rest of your life.

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